You Don’t Have to Hear “I Love You” to Know That Someone Does

“Good Morning”
“How was your day?”
“Be careful”
“Text me when you get home so I know you’re safe”
“Sweet dreams”
“How are you?”
“I hope you’re feeling better”
“Have a good day today!”
“:)”
“I miss you”
“Good night”
“Can you come over?”
“Can I come over?”
“Can I see you?”
“Can I call you?”
“You’re beautiful”
“Want something to drink?”
“Watch your step”
“Let’s watch a movie”
“What are you up to?”
“How is your day so far?”
“It will be okay”
“I’m here for you”
“Do you need anything?”
“Are you hungry?”
“I just wanted to hear your voice”
“You just made my day”
…

You don’t have to hear “I Love You” to know that someone does. Listen carefully. People speak from the heart more often than you think.

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Kenangan

Ada banyak kenangan yang bisa kau kenang. Kenangan baik. Kenangan buruk.
Semua bisa menjadi pelajaran berharga yang dapat kau kenang kelak saat renta merenggut jiwamu dan yang bisa kau lakukan hanya mengenang kejadian lampau satu-satu.

6 Desember 2012.
Dalam gagu ku termangu menatap wajah indah itu.
Ada kau malam itu.
Dapat ku ingat jelas saat itu, hasratmu utuh dalam diriku.
Tiada yang lain, kepalaku dipenuhi dirimu dan hanya kamu.
Mungkin semacam guna-guna yang kau pakai hingga aku tergila-gila akan sosokmu hadir dalam hari-hariku.
Tuhan, gilanya aku saat itu.

Don't Judge Me Challenge

Sebenarnya isu ini sudah cukup lama lewat, dan tulisan ini ditulis pada saat tren tersebut sedang digandrungi anak muda sosial media kita, tetapi lupa di-posting dan terlalu lama berada di dalam folder draft saya. 
Saya tidak akan menjustifikasi peserta 'Don't judge me challenge' ini, namun saran saya sebelum kita mengikuti suatu trend, ada baiknya kita mencari tahu terlebih dahulu tujuan dan maknanya trend tersebut apa. Jangan menjadi generasi yang latah mengikuti suatu tren tanpa tau tujuan yang sebenarnya, termasuk  'Don't judge me challenge' ini.
'Don't judge me challenge' it's not about the changes, but it thaught me to be myself. It's not about show your double chin and full of acne's face and then change to be a beautiful one, bukan dari buruk rupa menjadi cantik semata.
It's about being real you and don't need to try so hard to impress people and let people find the real beauty of you because everyone all beautiful in our own way.

You don't need to be ugly at first then show your beauty later. Please don't. If you show your 'before' like having tompel, jerawat, double chin, alis berantakan sebagai hal yang jelek and then in the next second you show your beautiful and full make up face, do it a judge it's self, didn't it?

Please, think it. Embrace yourself, young people..
#dontjudge
#opinion
#dontjudgemechallenge
#dontjudgechallenge

Perks of Dating Me

O Dear, I am a girl so easy to please. Buy me an ice cream and a bar of chocolate and I'll kiss you all day along as much as you want me to. I have bad mood swings, I have bad PMS, but ice cream and chocolate is enough to win me again.

I am an expert cuddler. Let's watch a movie and cuddle.

It's okay to bring me to warung makan kaki lima and eat as much as we want. It's less cost on our date. I can eat alot. And it's okay to get fat together.


I can hold a conversation, you can converse with me on any topic under the sun. Football, science, politics, public policy, social, economy, anything even how overrated Syahrini are. I can understand your humour taste, I have a good sense of humour too so we can spend our time to laugh about everything. We can laugh about ourself too.

I can not cook but I'll try to cook whatever you want me to cook. Sayur asem, orek tempe, cumi asam manis pedas, tempe bacem, dan apa pun.

I know exactly where you keep your stuff, so you can ask me whenever you forgot your stuff.

I want a fun relationship. I'll call you 'bego' and you can call me 'kampret' because call me 'baby' gets boring.

You will be on my priority list. You can be sure that I will make time for you.

I am affectionate. I like hugs, kisses, cuddles, and touches throughout the day.

Your mum will love me, they always do for some reason.

I will be more than just a girlfriend, I'll be your best friend, in every way I can.

Last, I know I am too ugly to cheat, you don't worry no one would take me from you.

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I re-post this from my ask.fm account. Thanks.